Let’s talk about something that isn’t exactly easy to think about, but is one of the most important things we can ever plan for: what happens when we’re gone.
For years, people have asked me to create a planner that helps organize all the crucial details—the big things and the little things—that our loved ones might need if the unexpected happens. I hesitated, not because I didn’t see the value, but because I wanted to make sure it was done right. I knew this wasn’t just another planner; this was something deeply personal, something that would be used in moments of grief and transition.
So, I did what I always do when I want to make something truly meaningful: I turned to my community.
Built With Your Feedback, Designed to Make Life Easier
My Discord group was invaluable in shaping what this planner would become. The conversations we had, the stories shared, the practical things they wished they’d had when navigating a loss—it all became the foundation of what I hope is the most useful, compassionate, and comprehensive planner I’ve ever created.
Because here’s the truth: none of us want to think about the “what ifs.” But planning ahead isn’t about dwelling on loss; it’s about making life a little lighter for the people we care about most. It’s about showing love in one of the most practical ways possible.
What Goes into a Death Planner?
I wanted this planner to go beyond the basics, so it covers everything—the must-haves like legal, financial, and medical info, plus the little details that make all the difference. This isn’t just a document dump; it’s a guide to who you are, what you love, and what you want for the people you leave behind.
✔️ Personal & Medical Information – A central place to record key details like your full name, birthdate, emergency contacts, medical history, and current medications. This ensures that loved ones have immediate access to vital health information when they need it.
✔️ Legal & Estate Planning – Organize details about your will, power of attorney, living will, and other legal documents so that your wishes are clear and legally protected. No one should have to guess about these things in a time of grief.
✔️Financial Accounts & Assets – Keep track of bank accounts, retirement funds, loans, insurance policies, and property details. This makes it easier for your family to handle financial matters without endless paperwork or confusion.
✔️ Digital Footprint & Social Media – From email accounts to social media profiles, this section helps ensure that your digital presence is handled according to your wishes—whether that means keeping accounts active, archiving them, or closing them entirely.
✔️ People to Notify – A structured list of important people who should be contacted in case of an emergency, including their phone numbers and addresses, so that no one is accidentally left out.
✔️ Final Wishes & Memorial Planning – Specify your preferences for funeral arrangements, memorial services, music, readings, and even where you’d like your final resting place to be. These details help take the burden off loved ones, allowing them to focus on remembering you rather than making tough decisions under stress.
✔️ Legacy & Sentimental Keepsakes – A place to document which special belongings—whether it’s jewelry, family heirlooms, or personal letters—you want to pass down, and to whom. This helps ensure sentimental items go to the right people, avoiding confusion or unintended disputes.
✔️ Last Letters & Final Goodbyes – One of the most personal sections, this gives you space to write final messages to loved ones. Whether it’s words of wisdom, love, or closure, these notes provide a way for your voice to be heard even when you’re no longer here.
A Gift You Hope They’ll Never Need… But One They’ll Be Grateful For If They Do
If there’s one thing I’ve learned through this process, it’s that planning for the inevitable is one of the most loving things we can do.
The Death Planner isn’t about fear; it’s about easing burdens and making sure your people have everything they need, right when they need it most. It’s about giving them space to grieve, rather than forcing them to dig through paperwork and guess at your wishes.
I hope this planner brings comfort, clarity, and peace of mind to those who use it. I hope it makes a hard moment just a little bit easier. And more than anything, I hope it reminds us all that love lives on in the plans we make for the people who matter most.
💛 Ready to get your affairs in order with ease? Check out the Death Planner here.
